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Separation In A Relationship Is Not The Answer In Marriage To Divorce

I Mean Separation Is Not The Answer In Marriage To Divorce. What's more, Therapy May Not Help! Individuals frequently inquire as to whether "they have confidence in separation" . My humble reaction is "indeed, I've seen it. I don't trust in it." I simply figure it can quite often, be avoided.  Observations are cited and known by everybody: almost 1 out of 8 relationships in the African community end up in separation. We've as of now settled that. Yet, that measurement doesn't change for couples who go for treatment, if such a  treatment or counselling is taken into consideration by the couple. As indicated by psychologist, practically half of couples in counselling end up separated. Simply 10 to 20% of couples who go to counselling see any critical assistance or benefit from such advise.  Imagine going to a specialist, and he lets you know that you really wanted to go through a strategy. The actual strategy is half baked. Also, on chances that

S.A. Society Needs New Men & Women To Build & Celebrate Family Values

Since the inception of our democracy; South Africans especially Black Folks, have taken everything for granted and over exaggerated their rights to a point of total delirium and care "less-ness". We have assumed titles of social media stupor to think our ignorance of privileges are in a perfect state of blissfulness. However, deserve all kinds of entitlements offered by  The S.A. Constitution . Including rights to step on the toes of those whose rights have been silenced and trampled on by bullying. And other wrongful human behavioral tactics.  Men have lost their ability to protect their children, wives, sons and daughters against abuse. To e.g. condemn unwritten laws of "African Black-Magic" and "Witchcraft" used by in-laws to try separate couples - Who love one another in a marriage that was ordained by God. Let alone unconditionally love and respect for their spiritual connection to come together.  Few women; if  any - are willing to step up to the

Volunteers Wanted To Help Launch SAMACCA Projects

I am looking for Volunteers and Helpers who can assist me in rolling-out a project plan to implement and to kick-start the first South African Marriages Anniversary Celebrations & Awards projects for any of the items listed below to build the association. If your skills do not match any of the projects mentioned below. Do not worry, I will show you how we do things. If you're willing to learn be prepare to embark on a learning curve that will enhance your skills and transform your new found passion, into a new career: Request our Skills Volunteer Fact Sheet Planned Projects for 2019/2020 of SAMACAA A Crowd Funding Campaign to fund our Podcast Radio Station Compile and print the S.A. Marriages Anniversary Yearbook for 2019 Our own SAMACAA Independent Newspape r  The SAMACAA Website and Information Portal The Annual Event for the First Prize Giving Awards 2019 Volunteer writers or authors and photographers & newspaper typesetter Identify a  Team of Helpers

Why Couples Should Volunteer To Change The World

We need new dreamers and leaders in our families to steer the future of our homes and country with dignity, good news, and clarity of purpose by being good role models of integrity our society can depend on. Good husbands and wives are hard to find, yet they exist amongst us. We need fathers who will protect their wives, daughters and grandchildren against abuse and molestation by shady dark acquaintances of a bad company. Our nation needs brave families of men and women to take up the baton of the countries' marital family values to fight a curse of women and children abuse. To inspire hope and confidence to our children and the nation to rise and be counted in the global map of countries that build good moral values and contribute to the human-race development.  South Africa can prove the world wrong about who we really are as a people if we unite and stand for a good cause. This is one of them. We must have honest credible couples who can lead and guide our y

The Miracle of Gratitude

Anyone who is not on drugs is sick - what do you think LIFE is? The three most addictive drugs a couple should never do without is! God | Love & Gratitude In GOD we find comfort and Blessings to top-up our motivation and reasons to stay together. In LOVE we enjoy marriage to the fullest and share only the best memorable experiences we had played on each other. Not every COUPLE is blessed to sustain their relationship - It is GRATITUDE that glues the marriage together to keep it strong. Do What Makes Both Partners Happy Celebrate every marriage anniversary as if it is the first day that you've met each other!

Believers Victory With Pastor D. Chetty

Believers Chat Room was created in 2012 with Pastor David Chetty as my guest and became my inspiration to capture a Special Moment of Wisdom shared with me by Pastor David Chetty. The story of Pastor David Chetty is very compelling and inspirational to listen to. How  The Spirit of Christ finds its way around us to save our lost souls. When I met Pastor Chetty, I was very impressed and touched by how he comes across when you have a conversation with him. He is soft-spoken and extremely humble and anyone can relate to him. Most importantly he is so accommodating and very welcoming. You gain a deep spiritual insight and knowledge of love and kindness when you are around him. One thing I have learned from him which is my honest witness, is his listening skills  and the ability to pay attention and how he takes interest in you during a conversation. I'm not surprised God chose him for this purpose which most people lack as a human quality. The ability to shut up, keep quiet

Your First 5 Years Marriage Honeymoon Story

Tell Us About Your Honeymoon Encounters Anyone who is alive and are able to read and write should at least leave something behind like a legacy when they depart from this world. This subject is about the zest and life you've lived and your experience as a youth, juvenile until adulthood. What can you teach the world - something they don't know and maybe your story can change someone's life? There is a lot you can tell about the journey of your ups and downs. It is all about your personal awareness to your existence and the most important role you have played or have yet to play or ignore in your life to deserve a publishing contract. Yes! who knows the might be a publisher out there waiting to hear your story and print your book! Take a chance and do it- You have nothing to lose, but everything to gain. You Only Live Once - Do It Now Many of us will never make an attempt to tell their story while alive and ticking; simply because they think writing a book needs a

Qualities Of A Good Man and A Good Woman

What You Think and Want Badly You Will Attract. A good wife is not hard to find, however, any reasonable man needs time and space to breath and visualize a clear intention of what qualities they want from a good woman. A clear uncontaminated thinking and a sense of purpose differentiates a real man from real boys. The same applies to any woman who wants to marry or find a real man. A real woman of wife material does not come with great looks of a "super model in magazine" covers. Think again and if that is what you wish to get for a good wife – don’t be surprised after making advances you discover how shallow and empty her mind functions and operates on an intellectual or spiritual level. Not all beautiful women are good wives just because they look fashionable and trendy! What's important is the quality of her brains and how she uses it to save the day. Yet! Men pass up simple humble women who can become Excellent Wives; because these men think “simple is ugly” wit

Celebrating Marriage As A Sacred Union

We are a South African organization that wants to put together an Awards Ceremony to celebrate marriages that have lasted longer than expected. It is common knowledge that todays' marriages do not even last longer than 3 years. In Recognition of those Couples who are still together in marriage to Fight Against a Bad Omen of  falling into a divorce trap. we  S.A. Marriage Anniversary Awards Celebrations Association would like to formalize our association and invite interested couples to enroll and to participate in our program. There are benefits in this program. "The part of the religious marriage ceremony that states God's authority over man". MARRIAGE AS A SACRED UNION We invite all married couples to join our Association and to celebrate those who will be joined in the union of marriage. We want to honour those who have stayed and faced the challenges of marriage. From them we want to learn new lessons and to teach these new skills to young marriage